Week 0

Feb. 14th, 2020 05:26 pm
rmc28: Rachel in hockey gear on the frozen fen at Upware, near Cambridge (Default)
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I was inspired earlier in the week by others' posts to start thinking seriously again about what needs sorting out at home. The big problem is that currently I seem to be the person on the critical path for everything and I can't do everything, and I'm having some serious decision fatigue about what to prioritise, which results in nothing getting done.

So, solution part 1 is blocking out some time to talk it through with Spouse: what are his feelings about priorities for the house, what capacity does he have to replace me on the critical path for anything, what are the tasks that might unblock one or both of us a bit more, etc. That's going to happen this weekend.

Solution part 2 is committing myself to blocking out time each week doing something towards those priorities. I'm thinking of doing a goal-setting/reporting-back post each week here as part of keeping me focused.

In the meantime this week, I tried the "pick SOMEthing, anything and spend 15 minutes on it" approach. In this case, I logged into the local Freecycle group, reactivated the expired posts for things that didn't go last time I tried offering them (in December), and posted the text I had drafted on my laptop for another item. That bit of effort, and dealing with the email responses, resulted in the following things leaving the house this week:

  • a mildly dusty but fully functional pushchair
  • 2x child's toilet seat & step-stool
  • a potty

and an agreed collection next week of a bag of outgrown child's school uniform. More space under the stairs and in the back room as a result, hurrah!

untonuggan: Lily and Chance squished in a cat pile-up on top of a cat tree (buff tabby, black cat with red collar) (Default)
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I <3 this community.

Somehow the numbers thing is really, really motivating. Right now I'm at a net loss of 33 things; I'm keeping a spreadsheet to track my progress and keep me motivated. (And this is only my second day!)

My family and I call clutter "drek", which is a fancy word for poo. Thus decluttering is known as de-drekking. It's very satisfying to say.

However, that's not the point of this post. I just wanted to let folks know of the wonders of freecycle. To quote from their mission statement thingy:

"The Freecycle Network™ is made up of 4,954 groups with 8,525,714 members around the world. It's a grassroots and entirely nonprofit movement of people who are giving (and getting) stuff for free in their own towns. It's all about reuse and keeping good stuff out of landfills. Each local group is moderated by local volunteers (them's good people). Membership is free."

Sometimes I'm reluctant to let certain things go. That keepsake that used to mean so much could get broken in the Goodwill donation truck. And often what I have won't get taken by Goodwill. That's where freecycle comes in. Today I freecycled a bunch of tourist information pamphlets I picked up on various vacations. I figured it would probably end up in the recycling, but I listed it to see what happened. Someone going to Cape Cod on Saturday took all the Cape Cod pamphlets and was really happy. And my tarot decks have a very loving home. It's sometimes easier to let go when you know your stuff is wanted elsewhere.

How does it work? Once you join the Yahoo group, you send an email with something like "OFFER: small buddha statue", a description of the item, and where you're located. People who want it email you and say when they can pick it up, and then you choose a person and a means of getting it to them. I have a porch, so I just leave it on my porch in a bag with their name on it. Then they take it away! It's like there's a magical Santa fairy who finds good homes for my stuff.

Of course the danger of freecycle is the massive emails you get with lots of cool stuff you might want to get from someone. (It helps if you get them in a 25-email digest version rather than individually; there are sometimes hundreds of posts a day on weekends.) The key is moderation.

So if you're looking for a way to get rid of some treasured keepsakes, half a bottle of shampoo, or fabric scraps, you might want to consider freecycle. (Crafting supplies disappear fast.) You keep things out of landfills and your closet, and you help your neighbors. You might even make a friend that way - I did. ^_^

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