That's something I really struggle with, s well. I have a shelf of sweaters that my grandmother knit that I never wear, probably will never wear, and don't quite know what to do with.. or things that I can't bear to throw out, but only look at when I'm decluttering or moving.
One suggestion I've heard is to take a picture, and keep the picture instead of the item.
And sometimes I've thrown out what I can, and left the rest still in the box, revisited it in a year, and been more able to get rid of more things.
Last year threw out this pillow I'd had as a little girl. I'll repost a reflection on what that was like for me, in case that's helpful.
I second putting stuff in a box for a while. When a year (or five) has passed and you realize your life was just fine without the items, it's easier to part with the things.
In my area, I can put a box outside with a FREE sign on it. The items will all be gone within a few hours (I live near a university, and there is a lot of pedestrian traffic). This is a great way to unload items too peculiar or old for Goodwill, but which do not fall into the category of garbage.
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Date: 2011-01-02 06:33 pm (UTC)One suggestion I've heard is to take a picture, and keep the picture instead of the item.
And sometimes I've thrown out what I can, and left the rest still in the box, revisited it in a year, and been more able to get rid of more things.
Last year threw out this pillow I'd had as a little girl. I'll repost a reflection on what that was like for me, in case that's helpful.
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Date: 2011-01-03 12:24 am (UTC)In my area, I can put a box outside with a FREE sign on it. The items will all be gone within a few hours (I live near a university, and there is a lot of pedestrian traffic). This is a great way to unload items too peculiar or old for Goodwill, but which do not fall into the category of garbage.